Powder Puff rules SNAFU:
There was an apparent discrepancy in the rules that either most, or all of the troops were given this year, with regards to whether all 4 wheels had to touch or not.
The rules WE were given, (along with many others I witnessed) said nothing about needing 4 wheels touching. This is different from last year, where the rules specifically said that all 4 must touch.
We checked in tonight and were told we needed 4 wheels touching. I obviously said "not what our rules said", so they told us to see the head lady, and we did. I told her (NICELY) that our rules didn't say that. She was very rude (immediately, not after awhile) and pointed at her book of rules, which DID say 4 had to touch. Loudly stated "I AM THE EVENT DIRECTOR AND THESE ARE RULES". This was like from the get-go....I was never, ever rude to her, I merely was trying to tell her these are the rules WE were given. I even went to my cell phone and pulled them up and showed her our rules didn't say that....no luck.
So we altered the car.
In the meantime, I noticed parent after parent from other troops going to her and questioning this, and some of them even had copies of the rules they were given....same as ours. Nothing about 4 wheels touching.
So I'm assuming she was being rude to everyone because she had already been hearing this long before we ever got there and was tired of it. One dad I saw she absolutely yelled at, and slammed the table. I walked over to tell him that lots of other people got the same rules (he had a copy in his hand) and there was an apparent mess-up somewhere. She looked me and said "You've been arguing with me (I never did, nor was I ever rude to her) for two hours".
I had been there maybe 30 minutes at that point, and had probably a total of 2 minutes of talk with her previously.
I walked away. Don't know what ended up happening with that Dad, lol. He was pretty hot, but only after the event director yelled at him and slammed the table.
Miscommunications and mistakes happen. It's a human trait. I think in this case, some allowances should have been made for people who built their cars to the rules they were given. If they were going to stick with what amounted to essentially changing the rules at the absolute last minute, they could have at least been nice and professional about it. The rules state that parents and Girl Scouts must exhibit good sportsmanship or they could be disqualified. I think that should also apply to the event personnel.
Sorry for what is somewhat of a rant, but what should have been done here? Allow the 3 wheeled cars since those were obviously the rules everyone had, or make everyone alter their cars at check-in?
There was an apparent discrepancy in the rules that either most, or all of the troops were given this year, with regards to whether all 4 wheels had to touch or not.
The rules WE were given, (along with many others I witnessed) said nothing about needing 4 wheels touching. This is different from last year, where the rules specifically said that all 4 must touch.
We checked in tonight and were told we needed 4 wheels touching. I obviously said "not what our rules said", so they told us to see the head lady, and we did. I told her (NICELY) that our rules didn't say that. She was very rude (immediately, not after awhile) and pointed at her book of rules, which DID say 4 had to touch. Loudly stated "I AM THE EVENT DIRECTOR AND THESE ARE RULES". This was like from the get-go....I was never, ever rude to her, I merely was trying to tell her these are the rules WE were given. I even went to my cell phone and pulled them up and showed her our rules didn't say that....no luck.
So we altered the car.
In the meantime, I noticed parent after parent from other troops going to her and questioning this, and some of them even had copies of the rules they were given....same as ours. Nothing about 4 wheels touching.
So I'm assuming she was being rude to everyone because she had already been hearing this long before we ever got there and was tired of it. One dad I saw she absolutely yelled at, and slammed the table. I walked over to tell him that lots of other people got the same rules (he had a copy in his hand) and there was an apparent mess-up somewhere. She looked me and said "You've been arguing with me (I never did, nor was I ever rude to her) for two hours".
I had been there maybe 30 minutes at that point, and had probably a total of 2 minutes of talk with her previously.
I walked away. Don't know what ended up happening with that Dad, lol. He was pretty hot, but only after the event director yelled at him and slammed the table.
Miscommunications and mistakes happen. It's a human trait. I think in this case, some allowances should have been made for people who built their cars to the rules they were given. If they were going to stick with what amounted to essentially changing the rules at the absolute last minute, they could have at least been nice and professional about it. The rules state that parents and Girl Scouts must exhibit good sportsmanship or they could be disqualified. I think that should also apply to the event personnel.
Sorry for what is somewhat of a rant, but what should have been done here? Allow the 3 wheeled cars since those were obviously the rules everyone had, or make everyone alter their cars at check-in?