The only thing I can suggest is that you set the proper gap on a mock up. Set a body up with 2 axles and 2 wheels. Set one side up with the gap you're after, use gap gauge. Get a feel of the gap by moving the wheel back and forth. Now go to other side and adjust the gap, by feel only. To check yourself, measure the gap when you think you have the gap adjusted correctly. Keep practicing until you get the right feel for the gap. Practice will get you there. Removing your eyes from the equation will help you, shut your eyes to increase your focus on your sense of feel. Of course, adjust the gap with eyes open, eyes closed to "measure". Now you have your own built in gap gauges. Now in the future, all you'll need is a mocked up gap to set proper wheel gaps. I hope this helps out.