Hi Derbydentist, I just noticed your question on the post.
B_Regal posted a great answer for this -
I only have two scales but am ordering another one. In my case, I use two scales to measure the weight under each rear wheel and keep the front of the car level using a stack of business cards.
The scales are identical, and as mentioned three would be best.
After measuring the rear weight distribution you can move a scale under the DFW and obtain that weight. I also rotated the car (place the rear of the car on the stack of bus cards) and measure the weight of the DFW.
A key step is to check that the measuring surface is level. Definitely take a few measurements to verify your setup and cross check that all of the measured wheel weights add up to the total weight of the car.
The link that I posted is for a site that you can use to enter the dimensions of the car, along with the wheel weights, and obtain a computed COM both front to back and side to side. I also check using the cantilever method and the two measurements were very close. That said, I don't have a bullet proof cantilever method to get the COM of a car, i.e., having the car balance perfectly and having the rear wheels perfectly parallel.
The more experienced builders, like B Regal, Crash Enburn, etc. know what is best for their car and track, etc. I am just learning
dah, just found page two of the post. Sorry to repeat what others said.